Whispered Conversations
When there is a gentle breeze blowing in a meadow it is as if there are voices softly talking, and the meadows in churchyards have a particular atmosphere all of their own. For me there is something so beguiling about seeing gravestones and tombs surrounded by grasses and meadow flowers. The grasses move in the wind and seem to have whispered conversations between the headstones, or perhaps they are sending messages from grave to grave. Standing there it seems as though the whole churchyard has come alive with movement and shared stories.
A gentle breeze is one thing however, but to be in a meadow in a gale is another matter entirely, especially in a churchyard such as Glynde in East Sussex, UK, where the church is situated on a hillside. Here the gale can blow quite strongly across the Downs and then the atmosphere in the churchyard becomes even more animated; the whispered words of the grasses become louder as their sentences spin around the tombs. I have visited Glynde at different times of the year, but I think one of my favourite times is when the meadow is in full bloom in May and June and then later in the summer when the grasses begin to seed. The rattle of the seed heads has its own language.
In recent years leaving the grass to grow or actually sowing a meadow to become a wildlife habitat in churchyards has become popular, managing the meadow to let the flowers and grasses seed and fall, ready for the next cycle in the coming year. After this the meadow is usually cut for winter, a crisp canvas for when the new green shoots start to appear again in the spring.
The poems and images on this page are a celebration of the meadows in English churchyards that I have visited and lingered long enough to have overheard the whispered conversations between the gravestones.
Lance My Heart
Photography and Poetry
By Shelley Turner
Lance My Heart
Lance my heart
With your love
I have been waiting
Patiently
For so long
For this to begin
I shall probably
Never be the same
But it will be
Perfect for me
As finally I will see
You in your glory
As you were meant to be
Take me with you
I am ready
For the next story
I am ready
For what you want me to be
I am yours
Body
Heart
And soul
Completely
Remembering The Roses
Photography and Poetry
By Shelley Turner
Remembering The Roses
Do you remember the roses
That were flowering that day
Blooming for you
As perfect as they could be
In a beautiful display
I wanted you to tell me
What was on your mind
I knew something was worrying you
There was a shadow on your heart
Your eyes would not meet mine
I thought this place would help you
We always loved it so
Perhaps it worked against me
You did not want to leave sad memories
Where we were once close and intertwined
So now I come and remember you
And I sit in the warm sunshine
Where you tried so hard to be kind
But now the rose petals are falling
Leaving only their thorns behind
Heartache
Heartache
I can feel you calling me
Every time I visit
Am I meant to be doing this
Am I awake
Please tell me
Because I can feel you
Beginning to resist
There is a deep sorrow
I can sense around you
Unresolved
As if you wanted to explain
But it was a chance you missed
And its consequences
Were not what you intended
Causing so much pain
That it broke your heart
And the hurt keeps repeating
With nowhere to go
Except to spiral out around you
Again and again
Photography and Poetry
By Shelley Turner
Together
Photography and Poetry
By Shelley Turner
Together
Nothing felt right without you
And I know you felt the same
You talked about it when you visited
You were listless and distracted
Needing my comfort again
There had only ever been us
We had fallen in love when very young
We knew we were meant for each other
It was just unspoken, unsung
So even in death they cannot part us
So here we are many years later
Always and forever
Marking time together
Still the same
What a great combination: poetry & lovely photography!
busb